The rising popularity of a buzzy pleasure gadget known as a prostate massager may very well help sex toys for guys attain mainstream acceptability in the year 2022.
What exactly is going on here? You may send lovely vibrations (literally) to the walnut-sized organ that sits between the bladder and the urethra, immediately in front of the rectum, using a prostate massager. While one of the prostate’s main functions is to produce fluid that feeds sperm, it is also densely packed with nerve endings that, when stimulated in the right way, can improve sexual pleasure.
Expert Coco Cameron, a representative of the Lovehoney sex toy company in the United Kingdom, agrees. “The prostate—or the P-spot—seems to be neglected as a pleasure zone by many guys, despite the fact that the prostate can be a source of great pleasure,” she continues.
The way the prostate is stimulated is entirely up to the individual. Some men love having their perineum, the sensitive stretch of skin that runs between the penis and the scrotum, rubbed. Others find having a finger or vibrator in the anus pleasurable. What a man feels and where he feels it is quite particular to him. “However, some men have experienced orgasm as a result of prostate massage alone,” Cameron writes.
In terms of usefulness, the design of a prostate massager sets it apart from other sex toys for men. “The toy must be twisted in such a way that it points toward the belly button in order to reach the prostate. Everything that doesn’t have that curvature will just pass through.”
Although homosexual men have frequented this section since the beginning, Richmond claims she has recently noticed a surge in the number of heterosexual clients interested in prostate play, either alone or with their partners.
If you’ve never used one before on your It, now is the time to do so! Start with one or two fingers and carefully explore the area, letting him tell you what feels good and what doesn’t. Then, to check how it works, try out the prostate massager. For those who are just getting started, all of the sextoys for men are fantastic prostate massagers.
Rather than placing something into your partner’s anus (which many men find unsettling at first), you can have the prostate massager vibrate his perineum, providing gentle stimulation from the outside. This is a fantastic introduction to prostate play for couples.
If you decide to try full-on insertion, make sure to lubricate your partner first to get the most enjoyment out of the encounter.
